Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God Colossians 3:16 (esv). To accomplish this, we need to stop judging each other by our standards, and begin to see them as an important part of the body of Christ. If we try to help each other instead of belittling each other because of their abilities, then we are not helping them to grow effectively in the family. By the way we live, let us show that we care for one another, because by so doing we show who we belong to. God bless us all as we attempt to help build instead of breaking down our family. The wisdom of God is for all His children, may we continue to grow in it continuously. God bless always.